How has your sex life been lately?
If you’re like me, you like to check in with yourself once in a while to see if there is something you can improve in your performance. I do that not only with my relationship but in all areas of my life, in order to avoid complacency.
I woke up this morning thinking “if I could only share 3 simple secrets for great sex, what would they be?” And this is what I came up with:
Just be there with your partner. Don’t be in the past thinking about what you said or what they did, don’t be in the future thinking about who’s going to get up to turn the lights off, make breakfast or bring water… Being present is the best way to make love. All of your attention is on the connection you are making now; all your attention is here, creating a beautiful moment. Simply realizing that will give your partner goosebumps!
Passion is what shows your partner that you are loving every single touch, every single kiss, every eye contact, every breath… All your senses are alerts and your heart is filled with joy and love. Being a passionate lover puts you on the highest rank because your partner will never forget the way you make them feel with just one touch.
If you’re not fully present and passionate, most likely your main focus will be on having an orgasm or making sure your partner have one. Then you’ll rush into things because you won’t be present, but your mind will be in the future. Don’t go for orgasms; go for enjoying every second as it comes, and go for as long as you can. That’s why being in shape is very important in order to have the best sex!
Don’t take my word for it, test it for yourself and see how you’re more in tune with your partner next time you apply these 3 tips in your bedroom.